Steubenville, Ohio: The City That Could (If It Wanted To)

Steubenville, Ohio. A place I still think of as my hometown, even though I grew up across the river in Follansbee, West Virginia. Perched on the banks of the Ohio River, just thirty minutes west of Pittsburgh, Steubenville has always felt like a crossroads of people, of industry, of stories both glamorous and grim.

This city has produced an impressive (and sometimes eyebrow-raising) list of natives: Dean Martin, whose crooner’s voice once lit up the airwaves; Jimmy “The Greek” Snyder, the famous sports commentator; baseball Hall of Famer Rollie Fingers with the iconic handlebar mustache; adult film star Traci Lords; and even the Wu-Tang Clan’s own RZA, Robert Diggs.

Steubenville was once a flourishing town, known for its bustling downtown and The Hub department store, back when shopping trips and Friday nights drew crowds from all over the Ohio Valley. The Dean Martin Festival turned the city into a nostalgic celebration of music and celebrity, and for a while, it felt like those glory days would last.

But the same highways that brought visitors—U.S. Route 22 and State Route 7—also brought something darker. As the 1990s rolled in, Steubenville found itself tangled in the web of gun and drug trafficking that stretched from Texas and St. Louis to New Jersey and New York. For all their chart-topping fame, some connected to the Wu-Tang Clan allegedly saw Steubenville as fertile ground for business that went far beyond music.

With that influx came a spike in violent crime… murder, mayhem, and a creeping sense that the city was losing its grip. But as shocking as the violence was, it was the corruption that really choked Steubenville. For decades, rumors swirled about city officials and police officers taking payouts to look the other way. Illegal gambling halls and bookies operated almost openly, while legitimate businesses struggled to survive.

Ironically, when the local mafia presence was finally broken, some residents felt the streets grew even less predictable. Those so-called “clean-cut monsters” might have policed the underworld better than the people actually wearing badges.

In the years since, corruption has retreated but never disappeared entirely. It’s become more discreet, more bureaucratic—a quiet resistance to progress that you can feel every time a promising development plan gets shot down.

Look at the riverfront: acres of valuable property that could—and should—be the centerpiece of a vibrant downtown. Today, there’s little more than a functional boat ramp. No docks. No restaurants. No nightlife. No attractions to draw tourists or locals. Even the restrooms are often locked, a sad testament to the addiction and crime that still haunt parts of the city.

Imagine it differently. Imagine a real marina with slips and fuel service. A waterfront restaurant and bar buzzing with music on summer nights. A small boutique hotel that lets visitors soak in views of the Ohio River instead of driving past Steubenville altogether.

It’s not that people haven’t tried. But for every fresh idea, there’s been an entrenched city manager or an aging council member who just won’t let go of the old ways. Even as younger leaders begin to step forward—newer faces on the council, a younger mayor—the old guard still outnumbers them.

That’s the tragedy of Steubenville. It’s a city with opportunity and potential that most places would envy, if only it could get out of its own way.

I still believe Steubenville could be great again. But it will take more than wishful thinking. It will take courage. It will take new leadership willing to face down decades of inertia and say, Enough.

Because if Steubenville ever decides to embrace change, there’s no limit to what it could become.

Scales & Tales: GTL – Gossip. Tan. Laundry.

Look Out Jersey Shore, there’s a new crew in town!

Welcome to Weirton, our own little slice of small-town reality TV, minus the MTV contract (and probably the fake breasts and abs). Forget Gym Tan Laundry. Around here, the ladies have perfected Gossip Tan Laundry.

G: Gossip

These girls can sniff out a scandal faster than you can say “pass the boxed wine.” From the moment you park crooked at Kroger to the second you blink wrong at the Moose Lodge, they’ve logged it, analyzed it, and workshopped it into a twelve-part exposé. And Katie bar the door if someone steps out of line bad rapping their favorite restaurant!

T: Tan

Look, just because the beaches are an hour away doesn’t mean the glow isn’t mandatory. Weirton tans are a vibe: part sunlamp, part spray, part “Oops, I fell asleep on the deck again.” A golden hue to distract you from the fact they know everything about you.

L: Laundry

Sure, they’re washing the towels. But also, your dirty laundry. Literal, figurative, spiritual. All while flipping your whites into the dryer and comparing notes on whose boyfriend was spotted where.

Pro Tip:

Stay on their good side. Because once you become the topic of a floating session at the neighborhood pool…. baby, you’re about to get cancelled quicker than a DirecTV subscription.

So here’s to the Girls of Weirton: equal parts fabulous, ferocious, and fully committed to the art of the chat. May your tans be streak-free, your laundry be fresh, and your gossip, just juicy enough to keep us entertained.

Less “I Want”, More “How Can I”

Let’s talk about one of the biggest problems in the American workplace today: entitlement without accountability.

Every single day, employees look their managers straight in the eye and declare, “I want more money.”

You know what you almost never hear?

“How can I make more money for the business?”

“What can I do to bring more value?”

“How can I help this place grow so we all win?”

We’ve created a work culture where too many people think showing up barely is enough. They clock in, do the part of the job they enjoy, then spend the rest of the shift scrolling on their phones, gossiping, or just standing around waiting for the clock to set them free.

Here’s a reality check:

Nobody gets a raise when the business isn’t growing.

Nobody gets better pay when the cash register isn’t ringing.

You want more money? You want promotions? You want a job you actually feel proud of? Then you’d better start by asking yourself:

What have I done to improve this workplace? Have I contributed anything that makes the business better or more profitable? Do I make things easier for my coworkers, or do I pile on complaints?

Because whether you realize it or not, you are getting noticed.

But probably not for the reasons you think.

You’re noticed for your lack of hustle.

You’re noticed for your lack of curiosity.

You’re noticed for your lack of teamwork and the way you act like it’s someone else’s job to care.

You want to be noticed for the right reasons? Flip the script.

Start being the person who:

Looks for what needs done and just does it. Jumps in to help without being asked. Takes pride in every task, no matter how small. Brings solutions instead of excuses.

When you consistently add value, guess what? Raises, promotions, and respect tend to follow. You actually earn them instead of just demanding them.

And while we’re at it leave your personal problems at the door. Everyone has them. This isn’t group therapy; it’s work. Get off your damn phone. Stop whining about what’s “not fair” and start contributing to the place that signs your paycheck.

You chose this job. If it’s so miserable, maybe it’s time to find something else. Because the reality is, plenty of jobs out there will never pay more because they can’t, the businesses can’t afford it when half the staff is stuck in “I want” mode instead of “How can I help?” mode…

You want a better work life? Be a better worker.

You want more money? Be worth more money.

You want respect? Do something respectable.

Until then…. work, work, and work some more. The only person standing between you and the success you think you deserve is you!

The Woman Who Saved My Life — 10 Years With Her

They say time flies when you’re having fun. I say it flies even faster when you find someone who becomes your best friend, your teammate, and the glue that holds you together.

We’ve been married ten years now. But this story started way before that, before either of us realized what we’d mean to each other. She knew me before I knew her. Back then, she danced with my sister and lived in a completely different chapter of life. Years passed. Life happened. And then we ran into each other again, me in my 40s, her at 38. Just two people with some miles behind them, carrying scars no one else could see.

After a tough breakup and battling a deep depression, I reached out. I didn’t know what I needed, but somehow… she did. She showed up. Steady, kind, patient. No demands, just presence. And that’s what I needed more than anything.

When my best friend died by suicide, my world cracked. I spiraled, angry, lost, numb. But she didn’t run. She stayed. And looking back now, I can say this without hesitation: she saved my life.

In 2014, we opened Basil’s Sports Bar. In 2015, we got married. But more important than what we’ve built in business is what we’ve built at home. Without her, Basil’s wouldn’t have grown into the success it has become. . I wouldn’t have the strength to keep going. She’s the quiet force behind every success I’ve had.

She’s the one who adjusts our lives around my health, who makes the effort every single day to understand what I need and give it. She’s my travel partner, my soft place to land, the only person I can sit in silence with and still feel completely understood.

She makes the best of everything—even when life throws curveballs. She adapts. She gives. She finds ways to make sure the people around her feel seen, heard, and loved. That’s just who she is.

Ten years later, I still look at her and think, damn, I got lucky. I didn’t just marry someone I love, I married someone who fought for me when I couldn’t fight for myself. Who stood by me when others wouldn’t. Who built a life with me, not because it was easy, but because we were worth it.

Thank you for choosing me. For saving me. For loving me in ways I didn’t know I needed. You’re my reason, my peace, and my partner in every sense of the word. I love you, more than I can ever put in words.

Here’s to ten years of us. And to everything that comes next.

Where’s the Damn Contractor’s?

Ever try to get some work done around your house or business? Simple stuff, like fixing deck boards, patching a roof, jetting a clogged driveway drain, or finally finishing that mysterious hole in the drywall that’s been staring at you like it knows your secrets?

So you call around. You text. You leave voicemails with the enthusiasm of someone who still believes in humanity. But what do you get back?

Crickets.

Ghosts.

A few “I’ll get back to yous” that age worse than milk in the sun. Or my favorite, when we hang up text me your name, address and job description and I’ll get to it. Meanwhile, a year later you’re still brooming rain water from your garage during every rainstorm!

I’ve got a notepad…. yes, a physical notepad, filled with the names of contractors who vanished like they got drafted into another dimension. They respond to messages, maybe even throw out a quote, but then poof! They’re gone. Or they show up once, sniff around, tell you it’ll be “about $700, give or take,” then hit you with a $2,800 bill for “materials” and “labor” and “uhh… time spent thinking about the job.”

We’ve all seen the commercials: Angie’s List (or whatever it’s called now… Angi? Like it’s trying to sound hip?). It works in bigger cities where reviews flow faster than Jamba Juice in L.A…. but in small towns? It’s as useful as a screen door on a submarine. And it sure as hell doesn’t warn you about the guy who never called back or the one who showed up smelling like last night’s dive bar and used your toilet more than his tools.

But here’s the real twist…

The big contractors?

The “we’ve got trucks and matching shirts” types?

They’re disappearing like Blockbuster in the early 2000’s

And what’s replacing them?

Handymen.

Guys with tools in the back of a dusty pickup, a telephone pole ad that says “No job too big,” and an Instagram full of before-and-after pics that are, let’s say, inspired.

Now listen, I love a good handyman hustle. They fill a gap, especially in small towns where calling a licensed contractor is like trying to book a table at a 5-star restaurant with a McDonald’s gift card.

But here’s the problem:

They’re handy. Not experts.

Need a new door hung? Perfect.

Need your electrical box redone so your breaker doesn’t trip when your wife curls her hair while your son is on a week long Xbox bender? Maybe not so much.

We need a new kind of system. Not Angie’s List 2.0. Not Yelp (because let’s be honest, most Yelp reviews were written during emotional breakdowns). We need a “No-Call, No-Show” database, a place to warn your fellow neighbors and friends before they waste a week waiting for someone who never intended to show up.

Contractor Ghosted You? Add ’em. Got quoted one price, then got hit with a “surprise?” Add ’em. Handyman rewired your house and now Alexa only speaks in Morse code? Add. Them.

We’re not here to bash the blue-collar heroes who actually do show up and do it right. We’re here to call out the ones who treat your time, money, and patience like they’re optional.

Until then, I’ll keep updating my little black notepad of contractor shame.

And if you’re in my area and you are “handy” I have some projects that need attending too! Show up, finish the job and stay out of my little black book!

Driveway Drain: Clogged from a neighbor’s pine tree. Called a plumber. Explained the issue clearly. He agreed to come take a look… never showed up.

Basement Bulkhead: Needs torn out and rebuilt. Plumbing and ductwork inside need repair and rerouting. I reached out to several contractors and even sent photos. Not a single one followed up.

Back Deck to Four-Season Room: Contacted multiple contractors to either repair or tear down the existing deck and convert it into a four-season room. One showed up and seemed interested. Said he’d email a quote and contract. That was two years ago. After three follow-up messages with no response, I gave up.

Fasting with One Kidney on the Gas Pedal and the Other Not There

Why I’m Still Winning the Health Game Despite the Odds…

You know what’s fun? Waking up one day and realizing your body’s trying to play dodgeball with your health. Plot twist: you only have one kidney. Yep. Uno. A solo nephron ninja.

And while some people might see that as a setback, I saw it as a challenge, and I’m not one to back down from a challenge. So what did I do? I leaned into science and discipline and I started fasting.

But not just the “I skipped breakfast and now I’m cranky” kind of fasting. I’m talking intermittent fasting, 24-hour fasts, and even brushing up against the mysterious and magical world of autophagy… where your body starts taking out its own cellular trash like Marie Kondo on a detox.

Let’s break it all down:

First, the Kidney Kicker:

Here’s the deal—I’ve got stage 3 chronic kidney disease.

And the remaining kidney? She’s putting in overtime like a single mom at Christmas. So every choice I make has to give her a fighting chance. I’m talking food, hydration, rest, stress, and now… fasting.

Why Fasting? Isn’t That Dangerous with CKD?

Oh, I didn’t just jump in blind. I did the research. I listened to my body. And most importantly…. I monitored everything like a hawk on espresso.

Fasting can lower inflammation, regulate blood pressure, improve insulin sensitivity, and yes, encourage autophagy (your body recycling damaged cells). And when your kidney’s already working solo, clearing out the trash before it clogs the pipes is essential.

But let’s be clear, I’m not out here dry fasting for 72 hours and praying to a cactus. I stay hydrated. Electrolytes? On point. Blood pressure? Watched closer than Coda watching bacon hit the floor.

My Current Fast Plan:

Want to try it? Cool. Want to watch from the sidelines and eat popcorn while I do it? Also fine.

But here’s my setup:

Monday – Saturday: 20-22 hour fasts Once a week: 24-26 hour extended fast (a gut reset, mental clarity flex, and spiritual smackdown in one) Sundays: No fast, just fuel. Because balance, baby.

What Breaks the Fast?

My go-to: Air-fried chicken strips and rice, with greens like chopped spinach on the side. No heavy fats, no gut bombs, and absolutely no breads when I’m doing a longer fast. (Even though it whispers sweet nothings to me from the pantry.)

It’s clean, lean, and helps me reintroduce food gently without turning my gut into a mosh pit.

Water, Electrolytes, and Vibes

Water is life. With one kidney, it’s the difference between a good day and a trip to the ER. I keep a gallon jug close like it’s my emotional support sidekick. If you fast and don’t hydrate? That’s like driving a car with no oil. Just. Don’t.

I also add:

LMNT packets. Magnesium at night. Salt in the morning.

Mental Game: Stronger Than Ever

Fasting isn’t just about body, it’s about brainpower. My focus is sharper, my energy is cleaner, and I’m not ruled by cravings. When food stops owning your day, you take the damn power back. That’s the real flex.

And for someone with a restaurant full of temptation? That’s like winning gold at the Snack Olympics.

I’ve got one kidney, a diagnosis most folks would use as an excuse to give up, and a full plate of reasons not to push this hard. But I do it anyway.

Why?

Because I believe you fight harder for your health when you realize how close you came to losing it.

Fasting isn’t a miracle. It’s a tool. And for me? It’s part of the plan to stick around a hell of a lot longer, with clarity, energy, and maybe a few more miles on my bike than the average dude my age.

Let’s call it what it is:

One kidney. Zero excuses.

Now go drink some water and stop pretending you don’t have time to take care of yourself.

We Deserve Better: Politics the Way America Meant It

Look, I’m not here to wave a flag for any one party…. I’m here to wave it for the people. For the business owners, the workers, the parents, the veterans, the folks who don’t get to hide behind a press secretary or cushy pension.

And let me say this loud and clear:

We deserve leaders…. not actors. Not liars. Not grifters in red ties or blue blazers.

Remember JFK? That man stood in front of the nation and said, “Ask not what your country can do for you…” and he meant it. He called on Americans to dig deep, to serve, to unite. Not divide and conquer. Not tweet and ghost.

Remember Reagan? Whether you loved him or not, you knew where he stood. He took on enemies foreign and domestic without apologizing for putting America first. He didn’t blink. He didn’t bend. And he damn sure didn’t sell out the country for speaking gigs and shady foreign deals.

Fast forward to today…

We’ve got a government that –

Prints money like Monopoly, then acts shocked when a burger costs $18. Shuts down schools, then wonders why kids can’t read past a 5th grade level. Makes health care a tangled mess of paperwork, co-pays, and corporate greed, while the folks who wrote the laws get Cadillac plans for life.

This isn’t leadership. It’s a money grab.

It’s a puppet show where the strings are pulled by lobbyists, donors, and foreign interests. And somehow, we’re the ones getting taxed, gaslit, and told to be grateful for it.

So here’s my message…

America needs a reset, not just politically, but morally.

We need leaders who…

Say what they mean and mean what they say. Live by the same rules as the rest of us. Put the people first, not the polls.

Bring back the spirit of JFK, of Reagan, of those who didn’t treat the White House like a VIP lounge for their next Netflix deal or TikTok reel.

We need truth over spin, service over ego, and results over excuses.

Until then, I’ll be here running a business, paying taxes, respecting my team, and praying that someday soon, someone in D.C. remembers who they really work for.

Spoiler: IT’S US!!!

Why Birkenstocks and Vans Will Always Outclass the Atrocity That Is Hey Dudes

There comes a time in every generation when a shoe trend sneaks up on us, takes over, and leaves us wondering if the human race is okay. For Gen Z, it was Crocs. For boomers, it was those orthopedic sneakers that look like orthopedic mistakes. And now… now we’ve hit a new low: Hey Dudes.

Yes, Hey Dudes… the footwear equivalent of a soggy saltine. Somehow, someway, these floppy, flavorless foot mittens have infiltrated society. And the worst part? Grown-ass men are falling for it. TikTok drops, gas station shelves, and suddenly the guy who used to rock Red Wings is strutting around in what looks like a paper towel with a sole.

Let me be clear: Birkenstocks and Vans never left. You just got distracted.

Let’s break it down:

Hey Dudes: For When You’ve Given Up

The Look: They look like someone tried to make a shoe out of a couch cushion and lost interest halfway through.

The Feel: Comfy? Sure. So is a Snuggie. Doesn’t mean you wear it in public.

The Message: “I might own a jet ski, but I definitely don’t wear sunscreen.”

Birkenstocks: Timeless, Durable, Sexy in an I-Know-My-Shit Way

The Look: The Boston clog in oiled leather? Chef’s kiss. German-engineered swagger.

The Feel: Conforms to your foot like it was sculpted by Michelangelo with orthopedic wisdom.

The Message: “I drink French press, I recycle, and my joints don’t ache because my shoes have arch support.”

Vans: The Sneaker of Legends

The Look: Classic. Iconic. Pairs with everything.

The Feel: Flat, yes… but throw some decent insoles in there and boom, you’re skating through life.

The Message: “I know music, I have taste, and I probably don’t believe in crypto.”

The TikTok Epidemic

Let’s be honest: TikTok has ruined some people. It used to be about dance trends and Gen Z angst. Now it’s a pipeline from “I just want a comfy shoe” to “I spent $59.99 on a piece of foam and sadness.”

Middle-aged men with bad backs are out here acting like it’s a drop, not a disaster.

Final Verdict:

If you’ve fallen victim to Hey Dudes, there’s still time. Take them off. Light a candle. Return to the holy trinity of Vans, Birks, and dignity.

Let’s bring class back to our feet. One sole at a time.

And next time someone says “Hey Dude,” you tell them:

“Bye, Bro.”

Follansbee Needs Leaders, Not an Internet Comment War

I jumped on social media today just to check the local election results in my old hometown, Follansbee, West Virginia. You know, a quiet little spot that’s seen generations of my family dedicate themselves to public service. We’ve had city council members, city managers… you name it. I even clocked a few years working for the city myself.

So yeah, I’ve got some skin in the game. And from what I saw during my time there, and from listening to those who stayed in the trenches…. I can tell you one thing for sure: Follansbee has been crying out for an overhaul for years.

Mismanaged funds. Overpaid department heads coasting through their gigs. A leadership culture where “best interest of the city” seems to be an afterthought. Watching the city slip year after year has been tough. Especially the police department. Follansbee sits right between Steubenville, OH and Weirton, WV…. just 30 minutes north of Wheeling. And guess what all three have in common? Crime and a serious drug problem. Meanwhile, Follansbee’s law enforcement seems underfunded and underprepared for the chaos that often spills into town.

But as disappointing as that is… what I saw today was worse.

I couldn’t even find the damn election results.

Instead? Just a scroll-fest of childish name-calling, online tantrums, and enough keyboard courage to fill a high school cafeteria. Seriously, grown adults throwing digital fists like it’s recess. “Idiot.” “Asshole.” And even worse.

Let me ask this: Would you say that to someone’s face at the gas station? At the post office? Or is your bravery only broadband-deep?

Listen, Follansbee needs change. I’m hopeful the new council members and mayor are ready to do what needs to be done and I genuinely believe they are. But change doesn’t just come from the top. It comes from us. From how we act, how we speak, and how we treat each other, even when we disagree.

And maybe, just maybe, if some of these digital tough guys tried acting like actual neighbors instead of internet trolls, we could get something real done.

Here’s to hoping.

What Jobs Have You Had?

Oh boy… you got time? Because my resume reads like a game of “Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego,” except it’s just me, a regular guy who never met a job he couldn’t tackle.

It all started right around my 15th birthday, when I got my first real gig at the local movie theater. I kicked things off as an usher, you know, the guy with the flashlight and the fake sense of authority. Then moved up to ticket taker, and eventually made my way up to the projection booth. Yep, back when we still ran reels, not playlists. I was the guy behind the curtain, keeping the magic rolling.

After a few years living that cinema life, I dove into the chlorine-soaked world of the local pool. First gig: general maintenance. Translation? I mowed grass, took out trash, and cleaned up the swampy mess that was the pool house. But after a few summers of paying my dues, I landed the coveted role — night maintenance. Midnight to 8am. No supervisors, no nagging… just a few hours of real work followed by a whole lot of goofing off. The dream job of every teenage degenerate.

But it wasn’t all cannonballs and ghost stories. We were responsible for keeping the pool running, and sometimes that meant diving headfirst (literally) into some real problems. Broken filters. Flooded pump rooms. Teenage mischief we didn’t even want to know about.

Then came the construction phase. I bounced between local companies, hammer in hand, building houses, fixing roofs, learning the hard way that gravity always wins. Eventually, I ended up in South Florida working for Sasser Glass, installing plate glass windows and pretty much anything that could shatter and ruin your day.

Back home again, I slung pizzas as a delivery guy and worked the door as a bouncer at a local bar. Think pizza by day, chokeholds by night. Then I moved back south to Hilton Head and worked with Double J Painting , mostly condos and fancy plantation builds. I picked up a side hustle as a bar back and line cook at a local wing joint. Because apparently, I’m allergic to free time and latex! Hence the real threat to a painter!

Back in my hometown (again, you sensing a theme here?), I returned to that same bar and stepped into the kitchen. Cooked for a few years before sliding behind the bar and eventually becoming the head bartender. Not long after that, I made the leap: I bought the place.

Almost forgot, during this time I also worked the tree service world, shoutout to Valley Tree Service, a gig I somehow forgot but my back definitely remembers. Climbing trees, cutting limbs, wrestling brush piles, all while slinging drinks at night. Nothing says “double life” like chainsaws by day, cocktails by moonlight. That job gave me a new respect for gravity, ropes, and not pissing off angry wasps at thirty feet.

From slinging drinks to signing paychecks , eight years as a bar owner. Wild ride. Then, plot twist: I swapped out the cocktail shaker for a badge and joined my hometown police department. Spent 12 years in law enforcement, learning a whole new set of life lessons, some hard, some heartbreaking, all unforgettable.

After that, I made my way to the neighboring city’s wastewater treatment plant as a plant operator (yes, it’s exactly as glamorous as it sounds). A couple years there, then a pivot into the icy trenches of a massive distribution center, working as an order filler in their deep freezers. Cold. Miserable. Character-building.

Eventually, the universe whispered (or maybe screamed), “Get back to what you love,” and I found myself right where I belong — back in the restaurant and bar world. This time, as an owner again. And this time, I came back with wisdom, scars, and a very long list of “what not to do.”

The Moral of the Resume?

I’ve worked a lot of jobs. Worn a lot of hats. Taken a few hard knocks and a few lucky breaks. But every stop along the way added something to the man I am today. Whether it was serving popcorn or serving warrants, flipping burgers or flipping bar tabs and rappelling pine trees— each chapter taught me something.

So yeah, maybe my path wasn’t linear. But damn, it’s been mine. And that’s what makes the story worth telling.

What jobs have you had?